The Feeling is Mutual.

Personally, I don't think there's a feeling worse than feeling like you're the only one trying in a possible relationship. This probably applies for any friendship, not just someone I may be 'talking' to, but any friendship. I hate it when I feel like I'm the only one trying to talk to the other person. Why do I always have to say something first? Is there a rule that the guys always have to talk first? Guys like to feel like their company is wanted too you know, girls aren't the only ones. For some reason, if I'm the one that has to start a conversation with a girl first, I feel like I'm the only one wanting to actually talk, while she is only talking to me since I talked first. I often get someone telling me "wow you never talk to me anymore!" or "i miss you! but you never talk to me!" and the first thing that would go through my mind is "well that's a two way road ya know!". How can someone say you never talk to them when they never attempt to talk to you? If they don't talk to me in a while, I tend to feel like they don't have time or I'd be annoying them so I decide to just leave them be.

Honestly, I know this sounds cheesy and all, but I truly smile when someone I want to talk to hits me up first because it shows me they actually wanna talk and that I slipped into their mind just enough for them to strike a conversation. I've been through things in the past where I would be the one to hit up the girl, I actually had a thing for, first all the time, and when I felt like it was only me trying, I would stop and the feelings would fade. Then later on, I would find out she liked me too and that she didn't understand why I would just suddenly stop talking to her. Well now you know.

Ladies, I know you like to play hard to get or don't wanna come off as easy and what not, but it doesn't hurt to show a little mutual feeling towards that guy. I don't think girls understand that we guys love it when the girl shows she wants to spend time with us too. If you like him too, show a little something that says there's something there instead of leaving him feeling like its not mutual. Trust me when I say this, if you don't show us the feeling is mutual, when it is, we will eventually stop trying and possibly miss out on something that could have been great.


Ahhh who am I to say though right?! :p

Love From Australia!

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Yes this is legit, yes she is from Australia, yes she is saying she enjoys my blog, and no i did not photoshop this! Check my formspring for yourself. Yeah, I'm as stunned as your are. How crazyyy! Thank you Alexis, you make me want to blog more often. I dont know how you came across my blog but I'm glad you did. And for you to show me love tells me I'm doin somethin right. Hope I keep you entertained with this boring ol' blog :p

Much Love to the few of my readers that remain. <3

slept on

found some good blogs in my drafts that i never got to finish, just slept on em. hmm i should finish them.

Damn..

Turns out I was the oblivious one in the end...



Foolish me.

First Impressions.

This is not a well known fact about me, but first impressions stick with me forever. Someones first impression determines how I see them for pretty much as long as I know them, for the most part. Unless, they really change my mind once I get to know them. I don't know if any one else is like this, but I really pay attention to the first few moments that I meet someone. How they are willing to be when they first meet someone really says something about them. I always try to make a good first impression when I meet someone and hope it was a good one. Whether its with a new potential friend, coworker, boss, teacher, or whoever, the first impression will always be a strong factor in any type of relationship. I tend to hate people who's first impression was such a bitch to me, and I tend to like someone who treats me with a smile on our first meeting. So if I'm bitter to you, and you really don't see why, think back to how we first met and ask yourself if it was a good first impression. Chances are it wasn't if I'm not very nice to you.

It's true what they say, you don't get a second chance for your first impression.

I felt like posting this up because its something that's been really going through my mind lately. I am currently in situations where I don't even want to get to know someone because their first impressions were that bad to me. Maybe I'm missing out on some potentially great people, but oh well. Sometimes those people who gave me bad first impressions randomly do something I think is nice and its like I don't even accept it just because I feel like they already messed things up. That's just how I am though. Sorry :\